The Hero is the individual who makes the family look good on the outside and actively tries to bring the family together. They work hard, make money to provide for, and even excel at academics. Some clinicians endorse this is the oldest child of the family typically. The ‘hero’ has a tendency to wish to be perfect, to do everything right, and feels immense amount of pressure to perform. This stress creates strain on the family as well, and can lead to blow-outs, meltdowns, isolation, depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health disorders.